why is it that one of the most major things on a person's mind is the opposite sex? (or whatever your preference is...)
why can't a person just be content by themselves? must someone always be in constant search?
i mean, can't you just live your life and ... what do you know?... maybe someone will come along?
i mean, i understand if someone is getting older and is concerned about starting a family before they get too old. but that's not the case for me and definitely not the case for people around me... and yet that's how i feel everyone around me IS.
in constant search for someone to be with and, if there's no one that really catches the person's attention, the person just choses from the pool of potentials that we are surrounded by.
why is this?
why must there be someone... always?
is it so bad to be single?
i'll never know why there's this constant struggle to find someone in the back of everyone's mind. it's always there, playing out strategies and possibilities.
i find it... annoying... a little.
it's not that i don't understand the basic reasons for it. it's good to be in a real relationship or even a not-so-good one for experience or something... but... i mean come on, the constant and ongoing search is a bit much.
i hate it even more when it's all a person will talk about. ... you know, the potentials... in every group/situation/place.
it's grating on my nerves... but i'm pretty sure that everyone else thinks that this is normal.
maybe i just have this cinderella/sleeping beauty complex that makes me feel like a prince charming will just coincidentally show up one day if it's "fated"(something i'm not convinced of either). but, i get that this is... a fairy tale situation and that most people have to work really hard to get the girl/guy of their dreams... or not-so-dreams.
but ... i don't know... why can't random meetings or coincidental ones happen?
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